Masturbation … every guy's dirty little secret.
Male masturbation and it's link to why so many women can't reach orgasm.
Male masturbation affects women far more than most of them realize. Women are having a very difficult time reaching orgasm, and it’s not because they aren’t wired properly. Guys aren’t getting it done in the bedroom, and that’s all there is to it. The main reason women spend a lifetime having bad sex is because their men don’t put out enough effort in the bedroom. Facts are facts, and the truth is that not that many married women are reaching orgasm—and a miniscule amount of them reach orgasm regularly.
When I stopped fantasizing about other women, ended masturbation completely, and began directing all my sexual energy towards my wife—surprise—my wife went from being one of those unfortunate women who had never had an orgasm to reaching orgasm every time we have sex. Even though we all think that we are sexual studs, the reality is that a guy only has so much sexual energy. If it’s being frivolously expended on random fantasies and masturbation, there’s not enough energy left to make sex with the wife what it needs to be. When your wife owns your sex life, mentally and physically, she stands a significant chance of becoming sexually satisfied herself.
Not attracted to your wife? I've got an easy solution for that one. One of the added benefits to ending masturbation and illicit thoughts is that it makes your wife a lot more attractive. My wife is way better looking now that she doesn't have to compete with every other woman on the planet. My wife is my sexual partner—not the female half of the species.
A lot of guys start a masturbation habit early in life, and they don't necessarily give it up after they get married. There are a lot of happily-married-masturbators out there. And don't think these guys are masturbating while thinking about their wives. Even worse, these mental sexcapades oftentimes carry over into the marital bedroom. When guys jerk off they are thinking about off-limits women. Unfortunately, I've had "good" guys admit to me that they are also thinking about other women when they have sex with their wives.
Another reason I gave up masturbation is because it was hard to feel like a man while bangin' one out in the bathroom. The truth is that a secret masturbation life is emasculating, no two ways about it. I determined to behave like a real man even when no one was looking, and I haven't regretted it a bit.
One of the best things a guy can do for his marriage is to commit to becoming the king of his bedroom. You want to have a washboard stomach or get a raise? Fine. Just make sure you add sexually satisfying your wife to your list of goals. If you're a guy who masturbates, you need to make nixing the masturbation habit your #1 marriage priority. Every woman should understand the connection between lousy sex and male masturbation. When a guy regularly rendezvous with the Bathroom Babes, he just doesn't always have what it takes to satisfy his real wife when he has real sex. It's a sad sexual state of affairs, but it's the truth.
