why buy this book?
I wrote this book for you. Tired of the humdrum of marriage? Married life isn’t quite what you were expecting when you said “I do” way back when? First of all, let’s get to the facts—no one’s marriage is exactly what they thought it would be. Be it better or worse than most, any marriage is going to find its two partners experiencing a degree of “I didn’t agree to this!”
To get exactly what you want out of marriage, you should have married your favorite automobile or article of clothing. They will be exactly what you thought they would, at least for awhile. Eventually, the car will break and the clothing item will wear out, but for a time, you’ll get exactly what you were expecting.
Marrying another person … that’s a whole different ballgame. People evolve and change, take up new habits, even start to look different. But marriage can be great—I mean when you see that couple that has really made the effort. Never have I seen two people who worked at a marriage be anything but thankful for it at the end of their lives. Effort plus love does not produce regret.
I have chosen to live my marriage with exceptional purpose and effort. I truly want to make my spouse’s life better, and I am willing to put out effort and ingenuity to do so. However, this was not always the case. Sadly, I exhibited my share of selfishness early on in marriage, and daily life around the house suffered because of it. There was many a time when I found myself thinking “Is this the right person?” or “I can’t believe I have to come home to this every day!”
But one fateful day I decided that I would not go to the grave having been a slacker in my marriage. It was not my wife’s duty to be the instigator in living a better life, nor was it really mine. But we were married, and I wanted things to be better. So I chose to do something about it.
This book is about taking two people who have chosen to be married and turning their relationship on a dime. Sick of a blah life? Buy my book. Tired of making excuses for not having a good marriage? Buy my book. I have the answers, and I have spelled them out for you in this book. You’ll have a blast reading it, and you will find yourself laughing the whole time. You suffered through at least 12 years of learning out of those miserable textbooks back in school; it’s time you took responsibility for your marriage education and had some fun instead of dreading it. You WILL get some insights from this book that you’ve not seen elsewhere.
I didn’t work on mastering my marriage to write a book—I did it to have an exceptional marriage. I chose to take the same constructive attitude towards writing this book for you. I want you to have an exceptional marriage experience too. There are no lists in this book, nor are their any tables, figures, or quotes to memorize. I memorized thousands of these items in school, and I don’t remember any of it. Personally, I remember good stories, so I’ve tried to fill this book with just that.
You owe it to your marriage to read this book. Everyone’s marriage should be important to them, and $14.95 plus shipping just isn’t too tall of an order. Read on, my friend.
